Comments on: Why I Think God is a Big Meanie – Sometimes http://www.habitationofjustice.com/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes One man takes on the world in an epic battle for truth and justice. Fri, 19 Mar 2010 07:30:33 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Lincoln Adams http://www.habitationofjustice.com/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes#comment-12412 Lincoln Adams Sun, 14 Feb 2010 17:30:11 +0000 http://www.habitationofjustice.com/2008/05/08/romance-relationships/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes/#comment-12412 Small Town: Thanks for your comments! Being in my thirties I have the benefit of hindsight, so even while things are sucky now, you have your whole life to look forward to. Don't let the absence of a boyfriend deprive you from enjoying what life has to offer. :) Small Town: Thanks for your comments! Being in my thirties I have the benefit of hindsight, so even while things are sucky now, you have your whole life to look forward to. Don’t let the absence of a boyfriend deprive you from enjoying what life has to offer. :)

]]> By: small_town_inhabitant http://www.habitationofjustice.com/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes#comment-12411 small_town_inhabitant Sun, 14 Feb 2010 16:39:35 +0000 http://www.habitationofjustice.com/2008/05/08/romance-relationships/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes/#comment-12411 This is absolutely fabulous! I came across this site to spread anti love matter all over Facebook today. Only to find a weird male version of myself. I'm not sure if its a part of me that I don't know of that secretly pines for what I can never have. But a book I've been reading (its mostly for teens and college kids, I'm 18) from a Christian point of view on dating, friendship, sex and homosexuality really opened my eyes. Recently, I had been feeling very bitter about every one of my conquests made in the name of love. I simply cannot catch a break! I know, I'm young I shouldn't care too much about dating. But this is America. lol. So, I was really getting frustrated, "God must hate me. How come every guy I like dislikes me?! I see people who are less deserving (like really easy girls and total jerks for guys) find 'love', so what the heck is the problem?!" I became depressed. I was emotionally dying from lonliness. I thought "You must think this is funny, huh. Get me to a low point so I'll need you more. I'm human, I NEED YOU ANYWAY!" (the lowest point came when I found a really great, attractive church guy where we had the same views but he was completely uninterested.) ANYHOW (I see that I'm ranting), the book explains that girls can be stupid sometimes and that you can't substitute emptiness inside with a person. That hole will never be filled, only with Jesus. The other stuff will come along when its time. (When I read this I was still cynical.) I'm trying that approach with cynicism, pessimism and bitterness all at the same time yet with optimism as well (unfortunately). Sometimes I think the worst thing Pandora let out of that box wasn't the sins and sorrows of the world but HOPE. Because inspite of all the disappointments, hope keeps you holding on. :( sorry its so much by the way. This is absolutely fabulous! I came across this site to spread anti love matter all over Facebook today. Only to find a weird male version of myself. I’m not sure if its a part of me that I don’t know of that secretly pines for what I can never have. But a book I’ve been reading (its mostly for teens and college kids, I’m 18) from a Christian point of view on dating, friendship, sex and homosexuality really opened my eyes. Recently, I had been feeling very bitter about every one of my conquests made in the name of love. I simply cannot catch a break! I know, I’m young I shouldn’t care too much about dating. But this is America. lol. So, I was really getting frustrated, “God must hate me. How come every guy I like dislikes me?! I see people who are less deserving (like really easy girls and total jerks for guys) find ‘love’, so what the heck is the problem?!” I became depressed. I was emotionally dying from lonliness. I thought “You must think this is funny, huh. Get me to a low point so I’ll need you more. I’m human, I NEED YOU ANYWAY!” (the lowest point came when I found a really great, attractive church guy where we had the same views but he was completely uninterested.) ANYHOW (I see that I’m ranting), the book explains that girls can be stupid sometimes and that you can’t substitute emptiness inside with a person. That hole will never be filled, only with Jesus. The other stuff will come along when its time. (When I read this I was still cynical.) I’m trying that approach with cynicism, pessimism and bitterness all at the same time yet with optimism as well (unfortunately). Sometimes I think the worst thing Pandora let out of that box wasn’t the sins and sorrows of the world but HOPE. Because inspite of all the disappointments, hope keeps you holding on. :( sorry its so much by the way.

]]> By: Lincoln Adams http://www.habitationofjustice.com/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes#comment-4331 Lincoln Adams Sat, 03 Jan 2009 23:35:47 +0000 http://www.habitationofjustice.com/2008/05/08/romance-relationships/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes/#comment-4331 I won't drink, but I may anty up on Dr. Pepper instead, so, close enough. :ggrin: I won’t drink, but I may anty up on Dr. Pepper instead, so, close enough. :ggrin:

]]> By: kender http://www.habitationofjustice.com/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes#comment-4330 kender Sat, 03 Jan 2009 23:24:52 +0000 http://www.habitationofjustice.com/2008/05/08/romance-relationships/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes/#comment-4330 wait...I just checked my status on facebook...it says I am single. As does my status on myspace. And I know the blurb on the back of my book says "Kender MacGowan - a reluctant romantic, sarcastic cynic and victim of love - writes poetry as a cheap alternative to therapy, hoping that somewhere karma will pile up in his favor. He lives in Southern California where he spends his time living the lifestyle of other curmudgeonly and famous writers in hopes of emulating them - mainly by drinking, writing and being anti-social." So I can now safely say I stand by my advice. :D wait…I just checked my status on facebook…it says I am single. As does my status on myspace.

And I know the blurb on the back of my book says “Kender MacGowan – a reluctant romantic, sarcastic cynic and victim of love – writes poetry as a cheap alternative to therapy, hoping that somewhere karma will pile up in his favor. He lives in Southern California where he spends his time living the lifestyle of other curmudgeonly and famous writers in hopes of emulating them – mainly by drinking, writing and being anti-social.”

So I can now safely say I stand by my advice.:D

]]> By: Lincoln Adams http://www.habitationofjustice.com/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes#comment-4329 Lincoln Adams Sat, 03 Jan 2009 23:14:29 +0000 http://www.habitationofjustice.com/2008/05/08/romance-relationships/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes/#comment-4329 Uh huh. :think: Uh huh. :think:

]]> By: kender http://www.habitationofjustice.com/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes#comment-4328 kender Sat, 03 Jan 2009 23:08:12 +0000 http://www.habitationofjustice.com/2008/05/08/romance-relationships/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes/#comment-4328 well...I was/kinda sorta guess I am.....what's yer point? :D well…I was/kinda sorta guess I am…..what’s yer point?:D

]]> By: Lincoln Adams http://www.habitationofjustice.com/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes#comment-4327 Lincoln Adams Sat, 03 Jan 2009 23:02:16 +0000 http://www.habitationofjustice.com/2008/05/08/romance-relationships/why-i-think-god-is-a-big-meanie-sometimes/#comment-4327 @kender: Aren't you engaged? :blink: @kender: Aren’t you engaged? :blink:

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