[...] crashing down when it became obvious that she wasn’t in fact the one, sometimes in the most cruelest way imaginable.  Afterwards it was all I could do to even get out of bed some days.  Sometimes I’d sleep [...]

want a woman? go to the bookstore. i think men who read and carry books are the most interesting. get out there..tomorrow is friday…go to Barnes and Noble and follow someone (hopefully a woman) around and strike up a conversation. if that don’t work, hit her with the biggest book you can find and drag her home. JK

i should be working, but i’m enjoying your blog!

Oh darnit.

You know it’s funny, I was thinking that a good place to meet someone would be with a charitable group anyway.

Stranger things have happened, but with me it’s never of the good kind.

*giggle* Sorry to break your heart. I’m taken (married). Though I do have brown hair and brown eyes. LOL

I believe there is someone out there for everyone. But we can’t rush it or force it. Love can be found in the strangest places. You could start volunteering at a local shelter. =)

I actually met my hubby at the apartment complex where we both lived at the time. I was working in the office and he came in to pick up a package. Then I didn’t see him for two months before one of my coworkers gave him my number. The rest, as they say, is history.

Who knows, you could meet someone online like Sarah K and Frank J. Stranger things have happened!

@Casto: LOL, thanks for holding back. Unfortunately I can’t keep a pet where I live, but I’ve always wanted a dog so I think sooner or later there will be one in my future.

I guess in the meantime I’ll just have to do a better job of hiding my desperation.

Are you seeing anybody by the way? ……. dammit I did it again!

Oh man you weren’t kidding about needing a girlfriend. lol I just popped over from Rachel’s rant. I was going to drop some sarcastic bible thumping hate post but now don’t have the heart. *grin*

You need a dog. Or a cat. The best way to attract a woman (a good woman at least) is to get a dog. Dogs are super hard to resist. Plus you automatically seem more independent and less desperate.

I personally think that brown haired girl was a Beeyotch. She totally took advantage of you … and she knew it. She probably knew at some level that you liked her so she used you to do things for her. I hate girls like that.

I agree though with Isaiah…girls hate desperation. Well, sane girls. The more you are confident and not catering to a girl’s every single undying request, the more attractive you will be. As a girl I can say this is true. =)

I’d go with Casey. There’s nothing wrong with church-going girls, and I think you need someone like that to rein you in.

As for the issue, I get the feeling that you might come across as being too desperate… girls get turned off by that. There’s a balance to be struck between some care for her and being a little aloof and unattainable. Women seem to always want to capture the unobtainable, heh!

Anyway, at least now you have more experience under your belt in tackling the next brown-eyed girl that comes around.