Gee, I could have written what you wrote about acceptance and judgment. That person who blocked you is a dolt.

(((HUGS))) to you. I think you’re great, no matter what mood you’re in.

Not to mention, that perhaps writing is a catharsis, and a healthy one at that. You could turn to drugs, drinking or other abusive behaviors to deal with what is upsetting you. I also like to writing and in the past had similar followers/unfollowers on given blogs I have kept
Also it is just one small aspect of you, and so much in writing is up for interpretation. I have jumped gun on emails, texts and so on. Unless she is your twin or able to follow your every move how is she to know all of what you are. Shame on her for judgment like that

Plus there are no “negative” feelings. They are just feelings. You cannot be told how you must or must not feel about something. You simply own them take responsibility and go from there.
I get angry and brooding. It is me. Yeah perhaps some may also label it negative but you know what, it is what also enables me to be active rather than passive and compassionate and intuitive. So there.
Her loss.

You’re cranky, you’re hopeless when it comes to women, you’r e disgruntled…but most of the time you’re funny, highly intelligent, charismatic, entertaining, and caring. and those of us who know you know all this. What’s the use of having friends who only want to be with you during the GOOD times? We all go through pretty dark times and we need people who are willing to listen, sympathize and not kick us when we’re down.

From all the friends I have, I know some of us have differences…HUGE differences. You learn not to talk about them or to talk about them respectfully with your friends. If you don’t LIKE what they have to say, you shut up about it, simply put. There is NO USE in telling a friend “I disagree” on the internet. Chances are they are just venting their point of view and submitting a contrary view is usually only saying, “I don’t care about our friendship as much as I care about proving I am right and you are wrong.”

I got to a point where I didn’t care who I offended, for a while, and I only wanted to surround myself with people who were exactly like me. I’m starting to learn not to compromise, but to be selective about my battles. Sounds like the “friend” who blocked you hasn’t learned this lesson yet.

I feel fortunate to know you. It’s a shame your other friend doesn’t realize you’d probably have been there for her in her darkest times. God forbid she ever goes through any hard times…Who will be there for her? She’d better make a lot of friends with amnesia or Alzheimer’s.

@Michelle: Thanks for that and the hug.

@Shelby: I agree, writing is a great outlet but for some reason a lot of people can’t seem to understand that. Nobody freaks out over Stephen King’s material ya know.

@Kelly: Hey, hey HEY! Who are you calling cranky??

Nobody is ever going to agree with you 100 percent on everything. I argue with my own parents for crying out loud and we share the same belief system ad verbatim.

I used to throw temper tantrums when people didn’t share my worldview not because I didn’t respect them, but because I didn’t want to to be the only flipping guy in the world who thought the way I did. It’s a lonely existence otherwise. Nowadays I’ve mellowed out some though.

everyone who doesn’t want to hang out with a whiner will be alone, forever. everyone whines, and nobody needs friends who can only handle fair weather. her loss.

Be youself, Linc. Be yourself over here over there and everywhere. Just tone your whoriness down a tad bit and you might meet a girl who isnt bitter, loaded with disease, or an unwed mother.

It is your unabashed sharing of emotions that appeals to me the most. I force myself to be up most of the time. I think I vicariously share your “whining” and I love your descriptive terms (like haggish and snarky!) and then go around saying them and it makes me feel better! hahahahaha. I admire people who are unfettered. Some people are just jealous!

But you say it all so much more eloquently than I could. Please don’t stop.

…and you might meet a girl who isnt bitter, loaded with disease, or an unwed mother.

So I should look outside the U.S. then?

:D

@Melissa: Thanks, sometimes I try to show tact and restrain myself but that never lasts too long.

@J: I don’t plan to, unless a meteor happens to drop on me.

You’d be severely limiting your options if you only look outside of the US, Lincypoopsie. America has some of the finest whores in the world and it would be a shame for you to deny yourself the pleasure of an ‘experienced woman’.

Is your dreamgirl some repressed virgin who cant say the word sex, without blushing and stammering? Just because someone isnt ‘active’ doesnt mean she is some pure, unsullied angel. It could just as easily mean she’s emotionally and physically cold or that no man has ever wanted to hit that due to some unfortunate physical or personality trait.

Sure hope this helps.

Anita – It could also mean that’s she has some self-respect. Whore.

Lincypoopsie..tee-hee.

Lincypoopsie, or it could mean that she frequents dating sites but nobody wants to date her after seeing her picture. Or she’s under the false illusion that she has self respect, when in reality she has never been hit on by an actual breathing human.

Casey – such language for a champion of the lonely and unloved. You kiss your mama with that mouth?

Anita, any relation to Ivana Hump by the way?

Poopsie, that’s my cousin!!!! You know, I think I met a friend of yours the other day. His name was Ne’er Bin Laid, does that ring a bell?

… … … … Bite me ho bag.

You know what, people like that can just go put a bullet in their whiny, judgmental skulls for all I care. If you’re feeling bitchy, write a bitchy post. Hell, I do some of my funniest writing when I’m pissed off. **** ‘em, I say. Keep writing whatever the hell you want.

Glad I found your blog (ye olde Blogge Catalogue strikes again).

Chris
cdmauger.blogspot.com

Um, thanks? LOL

Glad that $60 I spent to promote my site on Blog Catalog didn’t go to waste.

I don’t get involved personally on the web… I just read BUT your friends all gave you very wise advice… I assume this person was your wot problem…It is fixed today BTW

Sorry for the delayed comment on this post, but I was going to suggest that instead of making lemonade or grape juice that you mix them.

I always did like mixing the flavors of Kool-Aid. Oh yeah!

I bet you just said that so you’d have an excuse to use my Kool-Aid smiley didn’t ya.

A-farking-men Linc! I just went through something like this on my blog not to long ago with someone who I thought was a friend. (It’s someone you know too) I wrote a sarcastic/negative post about the crap job I got with little to no pay, no benefits and seriously, who wants to be a cashier at WM when you have been a corporate Training Manager with a 14 year professional career? This person basically jumped all over me for me having my feelings and complaints. Not only that, but this person went on to judge and nit pick on my physical, professional, educational flaws – or what she considers flaws in the blog comments. On top of that, started in on my friends who were defending my post and questioning who they were. Extremely judgmental and doesn’t seem to get it when someone is down and just trying to figure out their own way on how to get through it and trying to explain the “real world” of this economy to the people who are truly dealing with the unbelievable craziness of it. I get EXACTLY what you are saying in this post.

And by the way, that Kool-Aid man smiley is su-weet! Oh Yeah!

I think people who do that are in a way projecting dissatisfaction with their own lives on to other people. I can understand if some whines and moans all the flipping day every fricking day of the week, but if someone is at a low point and needs a therapeutic release somehow, that’s a horse of a different color altogether. Shame on people who expect us to maintain a sunny disposition 24 hours a day. It’s unrealistic and even unhealthy.