Meh, you know maybe God is doing her a favor by making sure I never meet her. If she is as sweet and wonderful as I hope she’d be, why punish her by having her end up with me?

Thanks for reminding me that I too will probably never find “the one” who gets me.

*sigh*

Honestly though, just don’t give up, Linc! I’m sure she’s out there somewhere! And she will present herself when the time is right. As for my guy, if you happen to see him, send him to Tennessee!

Men are the same way, though. We are conflicted beings.

Meh, I’m never conflicted about life, except for those times when I am.

You know, that’s probably why you and I always got along so well. We’re both the oddballs that don’t really fit anywhere. I don’t really fit into any category. I thought I was Conservative for a long time, but sometimes my fellow conservatives drive me crazy. I could never be a Liberal. I’m not religious enough to be part of a religion. I’m not anti-religion enough to be…well, whatever those people are. Atheist or something like that.

I think your problem is that you are TOO self-reflective. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You’re a very pure soul. The problem is that today’s society is all about playing games to get what you want…and you refuse to play the games. You’re refreshing but scary. Every woman says she wants to be the center of some man’s universe…but then when they are there, they feel “suffocated”. It doesn’t make much sense, does it? Men are the same way, though. We are conflicted beings.

@jennie: Thanks, it makes me happy when I’m able to entertain and encourage my readers at the same time.

I just like reading your blog for lots of reasons. Mostly you crack me up. I too, have fallen for that hottie at Starbucks, I too, wonder if any one who Loves God will ever think I am great enough to want to date me. I do well with the alternative, agnostic crowd but they always leave me wanting and needing talk of this great God I know that I wish they did.

This post rings true for those like me who live in the world don’t want to be of it but often those in church want nothing to do with our sort of “secular” type life. I am probably just rambling but many don’t have any clue what its like to live in a world full of people that really believe that Christians are just like G. W. Bush all the time…Not!
Thanks for this post, it was encouraging to me.

Yes we love each other but there’s more important things than that romantic idea of love.

LIES!!! FILTHY LIES!!!