Dating Tips or Dating Tricks?
Lincoln Adams | September 26, 2007 @ 8:00 amInternet dating sites have now become a huge industry, with thousands of sites dedicated to either providing dating advice or dating related services. This particular industry though seems to be HIGHLY plagued by online dating sites that may in fact be craftily designed splogs (automated blogs created for the primary purpose of spamming visitors), and crooksters looking to score off your dating misery.
These type of sites can be very hard to detect sometimes, but if you have pretty good intuition, maybe you’ll get a feeling like I do that something just seems to be a little bit… off here.
That’s how I felt about the site Online Dating Tips. Upon my first visit it seemed innocent enough, tightly coded, aesthetic design, speedy load, etc.. However, it also seemed light on the content, and heavy on the affiliate links. I don’t think I’m exaggerating when I say that apparently EVERY external link on that site was in fact a cloaked affiliate link to some of the biggest dating services on the Internet.
Hmmmm….
The content itself is split into several categories containing very short articles, which is easy to read and to be fair, really does offer some sound advice, BUT… you get the strange sense that you’ve already read it all before. Additionally, for a site that purports to be an authority on how to use online personals, it certainly comes across as a bit… impersonal. There are no personal testimonies, and no heart warming anecdotes to encourage the reader with. It all seems very bland and emotionless.
There’s a reason for this though: the content is not original. At all. My suspicions were confirmed when I copied and pasted a particular phrase from an article here and did a Google search with it. The phrase I copied was:
“Is it possible to find a soul mate online through a dating service? You bet it is…”
And lookie see here, I found another article that starts the same way. In fact, it’s the very same article.
But wait! Here’s another copy of the same article. And another one here, and here, and here and…
Hmmmmmmmmm….
Could be this “dating tips” site isn’t interested in the slightest bit about helping you find your loved one, but it does seem very interested in liberating you of your money through affiliate profits. Look, I don’t begrudge anyone who does affiliate marketing since I do it too, but if that’s their only purpose and they have no intention of offering anything of value in return, then they need to get their boonie boons spanked silly.
Well, I don’t know about you, but I’m devastated. And here I thought I found a place where people cared. Where people truly understood my sad plight and heartfelt desire to find a snuggly tookie tums butter pot cuddle pie to call my own.
Alas, alas, it appears that such is not the case here, and I shall have to continue my search elsewhere. 
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2 Responses to “Dating Tips or Dating Tricks?”
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Sorry to hear about this. I recently started a free online dating site myself. I have one small banner from Google on main page and one small banner in the profiles area of members. I do not charge for service. I also have very few members as the site just went live. I found this blog from dating blog search to find data in my industry that will help me better understand the needs on my clients.
I do believe there are many others out there with the same desires as mine and not all Dating sites are bad as the one you pointed out. I thank you for pointing out that one as an example what we don’t want to be. Hopefully you will find better luck else where.
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Hopefully I will.
But rather I’d meet her offline, somewhere under a bridge maybe, and on a sandy beach, the sun hitting her hair at just the right angle, causing me to stop and admire her beauty. Our eyes lock, and instantly, somehow, we just know, we were meant for each other.
Ah well, that’ll never happen. Off to go porn surfing now.
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