Am I being paranoid, or do the locals here really do want to cut me up with rusty razors?

Since I’ve been putting myself “out there,” especially when it comes to geocaching, I have so far:

Been chased by the police
Been chased by dogs
Gotten poison ivy rashes all over me
Stepped on doggie doo (this in an area where dogs aren’t allowed)
Picked up fossilized horsey poo thinking they were rocks
May have possibly gotten swine flu (I’m getting a sore throat now)

…and probably a few other things I can’t remember because I’ve repressed the memory.

But on the upside, during the times I’ve traveled far and away from home, I’ve beheld some truly magnificent scenery, which would include the women who somehow wind up in my hotel room for one reason or another.

Indeed, the more I travel and get away from it all, the more I realize just how strikingly different people are in other towns and states, and the more I suspect that the locals here really are out to get me.

Not that people weren’t rude or obnoxious elsewhere too. There were a few times in Pennsylvania where drivers would be UP MY TRAILER HITCH because I had the audacity to be in their way (though in retrospect I think it was because of my New York plates and the fact that the Phillies were turning into world class losers, tee hee.)

But generally, the atmosphere was remarkably different from what I’m used to. Everyone was always so… nice.

When I was at a buffet I remember walking up to get a plate, then turned around and happened to notice a girl, who just out of the blue gives me this heartwarming smile as she passed by. I was so taken aback that all I could manage to do was smile back, right before I ran back to my table and kept my head down low, wondering what crazy Twilight Zone episode I had just been teleported to. Women? Smiling at me? When things like that happen I can’t help but look out the window to see if I can spot the Four Horsemen.

Then there was the time when I was still in Lake Placid, I went to a BBQ restaurant and the waitress who took my order was just too nice for words. She actually wanted to keep talking to me but got called away, and to be honest, even if we hadn’t been interrupted, I wouldn’t have known what to do with it. WHY ARE YOU BEING SO NICE TO ME OMG IT’s FREAKING ME OUT!!!111

And then with Hotel Girl, who not only smiled, but also seemed content to be within kissable distance of me. I’m the type who gets exceptionally nervous when anyone breaches my personal perimeter of 6 feet, because I’ve gotten used to the idea that I am a rather repulsive human being that nobody would want to be within 2 yards of anyway. But then things like this happen, and I can’t help but wonder if maybe I was simply born in the wrong place.

Because what happens is, eventually when I’m done with my travels, I come… home. :hang:

And that’s when day quickly becomes night, and I have an opportunity to compare and contrast what I see here from what I see “out there.”

I noticed it right away when I went down to Panera Bread for a lunch or two a day after I got back from Pennsylvania. Women in particular do not look at me at all. I absolutely do not register on their radar, and for those rare times I do, good grief, the looks I would get. Steely, stony looks of pure, unadulterated hatred. Looks that say “How DARE you pollute the air I breathe with your existence!” Whereas the girl at that buffet gave me a smile as if I had made her day just by being there, these locals instead give me the kind of dirty looks typically reserved for mass murderers or people who like to kick puppies for fun.

I always thought it was because something was seriously wrong with me. I’m undesirable, I’m ugly, I can’t even get a girl to crack a polite smile because I am just that putrid and repugnant and disgusting. But then I travel just a little bit out of my safety zone and wow, what a difference even a mere 2 hour drive can make.

It’s a new experience to come in contact with a population that doesn’t seem to want you violently torn apart and shredded in a woodchipper. I wonder then if the reason it’s been so hard for me to find a nice girl is because she isn’t in fact, here, but “out there.”

Ah well, just something I’ve been pondering over as I try to fight back this growing soreness in my throat. Gees, as if the poison ivy wasn’t enough. :blink:

Well, if I do get sick, blogging will be obviously be light until I get better, so if you don’t hear from me for a bit, I’m probably on my deathbed and like, dying and stuff.

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4 Responses to “Am I being paranoid, or do the locals here really do want to cut me up with rusty razors?”

RovingPoet wrote a comment on November 13, 2009 @ 04:12:am
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Slippery Elm for the throat. Any decent natural foods store should have these herbal lozenges. “Throat coat” tea good too but taste is not that great.

I’m not sure where you live, but have an idea from your photo album. It is not exactly noted for friendly people, but especially women. They all seem to be sucking on lemons & in a permanent hate men/pity party about why they’re alone.

But that’s a generalization of course. I think your travels are telling you something: you need to change your home soon because you’ve gotten it in your head that you’re not worth loving. That is deadening to any human being and you really mustn’t continue with such deprecation.

You will now crack some funny joke, but this is serious. I think you have been heading for that change anyway. The time is now.

The Chick Voice wrote a comment on November 13, 2009 @ 01:12:pm
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Don’t die on us Linc. We like to hear your adventures. I’ve suspected all along that women are not repulsed by you. I think it’s the fact that YOU have a different mindset when you are on vacation and that “Vibe” so to speak, comes out the people around you.

Dude, you need to get out of Dodge more often………maybe MOVE out of Dodge. The Rockies are calling………

Lincoln Adams wrote a comment on November 14, 2009 @ 03:52:pm
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My throat’s been better, been managing to fend off any impending illness so far. :banana:

In regards to moving, the problem is where would I work? Working for the government all these years has made me virtually unemployable elsewhere. Plus it’s hard to beat the perks I have now, only working 4 days a week, close to 200 days of accrued vacation/sick time, best healthcare/dental plan in the state, and if I show up 30 minutes late every day nobody notices. I wish I could take my job with me, then I’d be a very happy camper. I’d leave my coworkers behind though.

I am planning to apply for fed jobs out of state as they come along, so we’ll see. Of course it would be super awesome if I didn’t have to work for anybody again and instead earned my living by blogging instead. Ah well, we’ll see.

That’s my motto of the month by the way: “We’ll see.” :ggrin:

Safreena wrote a comment on November 16, 2009 @ 08:32:pm
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Glad your feeling better and your vacations are enlightening and helping you realize that there are nice people (generally) ‘out there’ but someone is always going to be having a bad day, so just stick your tongue out and offer them a wet willy. From what I gather your kind of stuck where you are and financially looking for a perfect loft somewhere close to your work but it might be worth your while to commute… find that cottage like castle and spend some time there. You’ll continue to be surprised that everyone everywhere doesn’t suck. Some places are worse than others; there is a poem (Americas Best Loved Poems)… something about… It’s not you, it’s the town that’s no good.
All the best,

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